

The separation was not a joint decision and she clearly felt aggrieved. I basically told her I needed to be alone for a while when splitting up with her, but I think we had different opinions on what that means

Out of curiosity, how/why does it cause hassle? Not a dig, genuinely interested in what it's got to do with her and why she'd make a fuss When it initially happened she wasn't on, but some of her friends were and apparently I hadn't left it long enough before looking again.